FIGHTS AND FRIENDSHIPS

Hi guys,

Let's talk about friendship, shall we?
The word 'friendship' provides us with so many things to talk about. We all need friends, people to lean on, to help us. These are the people we make meaningful connections. Today's topic is one I still struggle with and wish to finally get it right.

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There is something I believed which is when misunderstandings are settled in a friendship, it makes it stronger. Well, maybe it is true for some people but not for me. To me, it has weakened friendships, and as someone bad at making friends, it leaves me with fewer friends. Imagine you and a friend have a  misunderstanding and you stop talking for some time, the friend finds someone to talk to and soon gets closer to the person and farther from you then when the misunderstanding is settled and you feel things will be as before but it doesn't because it now feels like you have been replaced and the closeness between you guys is no longer there until the friendship starts to feel strange and you start to feel lonely even when you have friends around. It's a sad feeling but this part of friendship isn't talked about enough. This has been a struggle for me and I'm yet to find a solution for it.

If you have ever been in a situation like this, you can say something in the comment section.